Tuesday, December 19, 2017

Making a List, Checking it Twice...

I love the holidays and look forward every year to celebrating with family and friends.  The mood lightens, the holiday cheer is in the air (and for some people in their cups), the traditions surface, and there is more positive energy in the work place.  We all would like to bottle up that “niceness” for the entire year.  My blog this week is about being better as a team (and also Star Wars – go see Star Wars).

My top ten list of things to do with your family (work or personal family) this time of year:

10 - Make a thank you video and send it to those who do not expect it (check – made “thank you” video for our nation-wide team not located in Virginia)
9 - Have a potluck themed food event (check – potluck Thanksgiving with waaaay too much food and a cookie exchange coming this Wednesday)
8 - Support a charity (check – coat collection with our team)
7 - Have a hot cocoa bar (check – although team did it without me when I was in NYC ...maybe they were sending me a message??)
6 - Collect toys for kids (check – we did a wonderful giving tree for kids in need)
5 - Decorate (check – wonderful work snow village and signs denoting all the holidays this season, including Festivus!)
4 - Break bread together – nothing helps build relationships like food and good discussion (check – lunch with my staff a few days every week)
3 - Laugh more (check – but never enough laughter)
2 - Give thanks and recognition and a handshake and a smile and a…. (you get the idea)
1 - Write a letter to “Santa” noting all the people and things you are thankful for, all the blessings you have and what you want to achieve in 2018.  Tuck it away in a drawer and pull it out on those tough winter days in February, those long nights in June and those weekends in October when work, stress and life have consumed you.

… and wishing everyone a “Happy Holidays” to all who celebrate. People celebrate a variety of holidays during this time of year with a variety of traditions (just a few examples include wishing you a: Merry Christmas, Happy Kwanzaa, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Ramadan, and/or Happy Diwali) and some choose to celebrate none. Don't be afraid to ask people what holidays they celebrate and use the opportunity to learn about different cultures/religions and the traditions that accompany them. For whatever and whenever you celebrate – enjoy and please have a Happy New Year!

Finally, “Happy Festivus” (for those who are in on the joke).  The non-commercial holiday's celebration, as depicted on Seinfeld, occurs on December 23rd and includes a Festivus dinner, an unadorned aluminum Festivus pole, practices such as the "Airing of Grievances" and "Feats of Strength", and the labeling of easily explainable events as "Festivus miracles".  Jerry Seinfeld refers to it as "a Festivus for the rest of us", referencing its open-source nature and non-commercial character. It has been described both as a parody holiday festival and as a form of playful consumer resistance.

Together.  We.  Win.

Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Monday, December 11, 2017

The "Not So Safe" Zone

“When you take risks, you learn that there will be times when you succeed and there will be times when you fail, and both are equally important.” - Ellen DeGeneres

Whether you’re an HR guy, a journalist, an entrepreneur or a COO, the road to success is often paved with rejection and failure. The difference between those who succeed and those who fail comes down to whether or not they choose to rise above the criticism and soldier on.  There are many people in this world who find some sad joy in seeing you fail, or maybe they just want to be successful, and jealousy or envy rears its ugly head. However, failure is often a critical ingredient on the path to success. There are many wildly successful people who can prove it.

A bullet wasn’t enough to stop Malala Yousafzai from fighting for girls’ rights to education in her native Pakistan. After Taliban fighters attempted to end the then 11-year-old’s life in 2009, she continued on her mission. “I had two options. One was to remain silent and wait to be killed. And the second was to speak up and then be killed,” she said, during her Nobel Peace Prize acceptance speech in 2014, at the age of 17. “The terrorists tried to stop us and attacked me and my friends who are here today, on our school bus in 2012, but neither their ideas nor their bullets could win.”  Any criticism we get really does not compare to what Malala went through.  Remember that.

Some days it seems like people are comfortable pointing out the failures of others as a reason to not try something new.  They like to remain in their “safe zone”.  Not everyone has to take a risk or even defend why they don’t.  But what would be nice, is for everyone to be supportive of taking risks and making change.  Be safe or take a chance.  Abe Lincoln failed his way to the Presidency.  He was defeated as a state legislator, congressman, senator, vice-president – and even had a nervous breakdown.   “The difference between history’s boldest accomplishments and its most staggering failures is often, simply, the diligent will to persevere”, said President Lincoln.

Many of our peers try to hide behind this idea that they’re making the right decision based on good, solid evidence.  Each failure that they can point out is a point for their views. It’s an argument for why they’re a lot smarter than those of us who take their best shot when the odds are stacked against us.  As Jon Westenberg stated, “They can look back on their lives and feel comforted because hey, at least they didn’t #$#@ up like you did. They can avoid the pressure of trying something, and be confident in it.” 

J.K. Rowling wasn’t the only bestselling author who thrived on rejection. In his biographical writing guide, "On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft," Stephen King admits that in his early days as a writer he held onto a similar pile of rejections slips from publishers. Early in his career he would stack these slips on a nail hanging above his bed for motivation. “By the time I was fourteen the nail in my wall would no longer support the weight of the rejection slips impaled upon it,” he wrote. “I replaced the nail with a spike and went on writing.”

Let’s talk about the other side of that coin.  When you’re successful, after taking that risk and doing something you believe in, it throws a distinct spotlight on the people who never make the choice to do that. It then becomes a big case study in favor of us leaping into the unknown.  Here is an inside secret, we can win and “they” do not have to lose.  We can be successful together.  What we all discover over time is that much of the time, we really aren’t even in a competition at all. Each win should be celebrated by us or for us.  Every time someone we know succeeds with their idea, their project or their invention, it should be celebrated. Heck, it helps you refer to other great and successful people in your network.

One of my favorite personal stories of failure involves when I was up for a role early in my career, and I obviously did not get the job.  I was told “you are just not OLD enough”.  I was mad at the person who won the role because I felt we were competitors. I was understandably annoyed, but the person who did get the role was truly not my competition and they ended up embracing me beyond belief and became a mentor that I still engage with today (20+ years later).

Peer envy has become so rife in today's 'anything's possible' society that it's even got a name: Failed Potential Syndrome.  This syndrome gets more acute with age, and can be disastrous for your mental health; it is everywhere. It's that feeling that somehow life has not quite blossomed for you in the way you thought it would, while your peers (usually the seemingly unambitious ones) soar to great heights. FPS is characterized by peer envy (check), failure to launch (check), and a general feeling that you haven’t quite achieved what you had expected to by a certain age (double check). Well, at least it’s good that I can finally diagnose myself?  But here is the key point, when people are pointing fingers, remember all the success that were launched by failure!  3M post it notes, penicillin, the slinky, corn flakes, and the pacemaker were all made from mistakes.  Yes, even the pacemaker.  In 1956, Wilson Greatbatch was working on building a heart rhythm recording device at the University of Buffalo. He reached into a box and pulled out a resistor of the wrong size and plugged it into the circuit. When he installed it, he recognized the rhythmic lub-dub sound of the human heart. The beat, according to his 2001 obituary in The New York Times, reminded him of chats he had had with other scientists about whether an electrical stimulation could make up for a breakdown in the heart's natural beats

"Failure isn't fatal, but failure to change might be" - John Wooden

Together.  We.  Win.
 

Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Monday, December 4, 2017

Give more…

Last Tuesday was our National Day of Giving.  Entering its sixth year, #GivingTuesday is a global day of giving fueled by the power of social media and collaboration.  A great focus and purpose.  Charities, families, businesses, communities, politicians, and students around the world came together for one common purpose: to celebrate generosity and to give.  Created by the team at the Belfer Center for Innovation & Social Impact at the 92nd Street Y—a cultural center in New York City that, since 1874, has been bringing people together around the values of service and giving back—#GivingTuesday connects diverse groups of individuals, communities and organizations around the world for one common purpose: to celebrate and encourage giving. A team of influencers and founding partners joined forces, collaborating across sectors, offering expertise and working tirelessly, to launch #GivingTuesday and they have continued to shape, grow and strengthen the movement.  More commonly referred to as #GivingTuesday, National Day of Giving harnesses the power of social media to give back around the world and throughout the year.

I hope you gave more….         

In 2016, according to USA today, #GivingTuesday broke a record with $168 million in charitable donations worldwide, topping the 2015 by 44%. The Blackbaud group processed more than $47.7 million from more than 6,700 organizations (a 20% increase from 2015).  Furthermore, when compared with the previous year, online donation volumes increased by 31% while 33% more non-profit groups received an online donation. Since 2012, they also calculated that the presence of Giving Tuesday had increased by 317%.  Amazing what America does when we are focused on the right things.  People care…

So where am I going with all this, well it is the holiday season.  The season of giving, so I have read many articles the last few days and came across some good ideas for all of us for this holiday season.  The world has made it easy for us. Being charitable has become embedded throughout our everyday lives through shopping, by pursuing our hobbies, at our workplaces, and with our celebrations.  We don't even need money!

Just by doing fun things and living your life to the fullest, you and your family can spread good deeds from your home to around the globe.  Some thoughts: give your stuff to charity, give gifts that give back, do you have a hobby and make “things” (knitting, photos, quilts, etc.) you can give away, use your exercise for good (there are so many charity runs/walks/swims, etc.), pets or homeless pets – they need help too, give away perks (frequent flyer miles), share your talents/skills (do you teach yoga? You could give back by teaching at a YMCA or Boys and Girls club), support EBay Giving Works or Amazon Smile, donate blood, deliver some cool treats to your local fire or police department, or work with your kids to make and send cards to our troops overseas.  For many, a smile at the right time never hurts.  You get the idea.

There are over 1,500 national days, some worthy, some funny, some cringe-worthy.  Some really make a difference - make National Day of Giving into “Every Day Your Giving”.

Together.  We.  Win.

Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Monday, November 27, 2017

If Nobody Reads It, Does It Exist?

I recently read that it is “not about what is under the Christmas tree, but it is about who is around the Christmas tree.” Things in our life may come and go, but people and memories stay with us forever (well... or until I walk up the stairs and forget what I went upstairs for).

How does this tie into our work life?   What in our daily routine is just a thing and what is memorable?   If I can have permission to alter the quote above to this, “it is not about the things you did, but it is about who you impacted”.  I think it is our role as leaders to be impactful.  How do we “impact people”?  How do we make a difference every day to make our team better.  How do we challenge and reduce the “things” in order to focus on what will be memorable?

Sure, it is important to ensure the report is on time, the audit complete, the investigation is thorough or the story delivered, but it is more important to understand the impact of the report, the impact of the audit, the impact of the investigation or the impact of the story.

If nobody reads it, does it exist?  We have all completed projects like this.  Like automatons churning out our weekly widgets.  I once interviewed a journalist from a small-town paper who wrote updates to her boss about the police blotter, she thought nobody read it so she started making these crazy creative stories and turning them in – apparently the right people were reading though and a few weeks later she was promoted to a bigger job - her creativity did have an impact.  So, do we ever do the same?  Do we question the need, the value, the impact of our periodic work?  Do we really understand what happens with our work?

What is the intent of our deliverable and what was the impact of it? 

Much of what we deliver in the workplace is repeatable and unoriginal.  What stands out is when something is different.  Something that actually makes an impact on people.  The reader, the boss, the employee, the peer.  What causes us to pause, to think, to change?  What makes us ALWAYS want to read a piece of work by Mary Smith??  And why.  How do we make the mundane, extraordinary?

So, next week when you are churning out weekly update 237.a.31, take a moment and rethink it.  What can you change to make it more valuable and impactful for the recipient? 

What will cause it to be a memory and not a thing? 

Together.  We.  Win. 

Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Thursday, November 9, 2017

Five for Five

Today, my blog is short and to the point. Five challenges in five days. Five for Five!

First, I want to challenge all of us in the next week after you read this blog, to go out and explicitly role model the following behaviors:
  • Include those on your team you often overlook (we know you do not consciously have “favorites” but try to choose not to hang with your “favorites” this week)
  • Recognize the small wins your team members made this week – be specific and sincere
  • Reward 5 employees unexpectedly (does not even have to be in your department).  A cup of coffee, a gift card, etc. It is not about the value but about the awareness
  • Write 5 personal and detailed thank you notes (or emails)
  • Focus on unity
I am frustrated, like many Americans, watching our nation, our workforce, our neighbors, our friends becoming divided and seeing too much focus on “difference”.  Let’s focus on “sameness” because that is pretty easy.

Enablement and inclusiveness are qualities exhibited by emotionally healthy people. As leaders, we need the desire and ability to develop, support and constructively engage our teams.  As I spoke about last week, we need to turn up our awareness and make better, more highly conscious choices and be mindful. Mindfulness.

When we enable and include others, we open up the opportunity to build better relationships – where contribution and discretionary effort become the norm.

Kathy Caprino (Forbes) writes about 7 traits of Inspiring Leadership:
  • We need to be clear about the challenges ahead, inspire faith, hope and collaboration, not fear.
  • Blame is not in our rhetoric – we should never stoop to recrimination or demeaning, belittling language.
  • Our self-esteem should be strong enough to take constructive criticism and critique, and in fact, we should welcome it.
  • Our communication style should be positive, with words that inspire greatness and growth in our teams.
  • We should NOT surround ourselves only with people who “yes” us – we should surround ourselves with diversity, truth and openness.
  • The success that we long for should be success and opportunity for all – not just one faction, group, or organization.
  • We must operate at all times with integrity, truthfulness and transparency, even when that’s excruciatingly difficult to do.
Enabling and including others requires an investment.   Sometimes we need to be willing, in the short term, to have something done more slowly than it would take to do it our self. There may even be mistakes made. And being present in conversations requires energy on your part and might mean that it takes you longer to get your own work done.  Including, recognizing, rewarding, and mindfulness are investments today for longer term payoffs tomorrow.  However, the rewards will always pay back this investment many times over. We just need to be willing to make it.  Make this the week you “wow” your team and hopefully they will “wow” you with more positive outcomes.

Together.  We.  Win.

Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Friday, November 3, 2017

Turn up the Heat!

A different angle today on workplace productivity.  There are many areas we focus on with leaders regarding workplace productivity.  I have spoken in the past about leading with Optimism, Creativity, Authentic Communication and Humanity.  This is all great, but the reality (which I was reminded of this morning as three employees walked into my office to complain that they were “freezing”) is we need to start with Maslow.  Maslow stated that people are motivated to achieve certain needs and that some needs take precedence over others. Our most basic need is for physical survival, and this will be the first thing that motivates our behavior. Once that level is fulfilled the next level up is what motivates us, and so on.  Well … at the very bottom of the pyramid is food, water, warmth and rest.  Esteem needs and self-actualization are levels four and five.  So “turn up the heat, Dave…please”.

Thus, all these great leadership techniques are important once basic “survival needs” are met.

Today I want to focus on our environment.  How do we help enhance (or at least not detract from) workplace productivity by building a better environment?  The need to enhance employee productivity is a reality none of us can ignore. If you run a team you'll want to run away from doing the mundane and routine when you can. However, it's inevitable that you'll encounter factors that lessen employee motivation and dampen productivity.  How do we limit these motivation killers?  First, we need to identify them.  Then work to reduce or eliminate these … and also add some other productivity boosters.

Great leaders will find ways to carefully observe their work environment in search of these problem areas affecting employee motivation. Some examples include (but are not limited to): toxic and/or abrasive personalities (we all know these people), lack of cultural vision and inclusivity (we read about this all too often lately), poor communications (we notice this daily?), autocratic and dictatorial management styles (uuugh), and lack of recognition/appreciation (a simple “thank you” goes a long way). Addressing each of these requires diligence, understanding and inclusiveness. Much of these improvements require paying attention to the “small stuff”.

For example, this big body of mine (self-awareness) truly does not get cold very often (I often wear shorts outside of work in the winter).  That said, it is not about me, so if the team is cold – I need to make a change.  So, I did some research and the recommended comfortable working temperature is between 68 and 70 degrees F (20-21 C). An environment that’s too hot or too cold (Goldilocks?) distracts from concentration, as employees will spend more time walking around buzzing about the temperature to get their coats or maybe an electric fan (no personal heaters allowed!).

Another example, having discussions about our environment.  I met with the team yesterday “TMZ style” – I stood at one end of the work space and everyone was at their desks and we had a relaxed 60-minute discussion about the work environment.  Teleworking, “Fun” Wednesdays, air temperatures, noise, music, television stations, birthdays, fat foods and getting fit, etc.  A great discussion.  And great for each employee to express their thoughts and see what is important to others (some like music, some like quiet; some like chatter, some like quiet; some like the television sound on, some like quiet – you get the idea).  In speaking about music, I reminded them if we did a survey to determine what type of music we listen to – it is more about what music you do not hate versus telling me what music you love.  Office space, windows, temperature, and music are never easy topics – very individualized.  My view is that part of solving this is actually finding something that works for most AND also the mere fact that we, as leaders, recognize and discuss it with the team is also part of the victory.

Employee productivity is a little like breathing.  It’s vital in keeping your company alive and thriving. And when all is going well, you probably don’t think too much about it.  But when things get distracting, or there’s a major obstacle, operations can quickly grind to a halt. So “turn up the heat, Dave…please”.

What is the moral of this story?  It all starts with engagement with your team.  Disengaged employees can drag a team down. But engaged employees show up more often, stay longer, and are more productive overall. One of the best ways to encourage productivity is to encourage individuals to take ownership over how they manage their own time and resources.  This is a wonderfully self-correcting process: we want people on our team who are self-starters and are able to operate independently. Granting the team freedom over when, how, and where they work creates proof of their work ethic in a way that trying to control them cannot.  It sounds counter-intuitive: manage less and get better results.  But science backs up this premise. Most people are more strongly motivated by autonomy than financial rewards. Experts say that workers who believe they are free to make choices in the workplace — and be accountable for their decisions — are happier and more productive. Autonomy can take many different forms. Organizations may let employees set their own schedules, choose how to do their work or even elect to work from home. No matter how autonomy is defined, when people feel they have latitude the results are impressive. Potential benefits include greater employee commitment, better performance, improved productivity and lower turnover (Concordia University).

Also, when your team is stressed, productivity drops.  That said, the right kind of stress is actually motivating and good for productivity. The aim is to combat the bad stress before it happens.  How?  By encouraging your team at all levels to care for their mental, physical, and emotional health.  That means doing all the things necessary to foster a healthy, communicative company culture.  Role model good behaviors in these three areas.  We have to model self-care by showing—not just telling—employees that you value things like good sleep, work-life balance, family time, friend time, and taking time for exercise and vacations.

One last piece which I am a big fan of is teleworking.  That said, there is a balance and a self-awareness needed to understand when your clients need you in the office, when our boss needs you to be at the meeting (not just “in” the meeting) and when your peers need you present for certain events or meetings.  Remote workers are more productive, they log more hours, take less sick leave, perform better, and in general are more engaged at work.  Unsurprisingly, companies are catching on.  From 2012 to 2016, Gallup reports the number of employees working remotely jumped from 39% to 43%. And a Global Workplace Analytics survey found remote work has seen 103% growth among corporate telecommuters over the last decade.  This is not without downsides which include new communication styles (how do you say hello every morning to your teleworkers?) and how do you handle “innovation sessions”?  Remote work allows employees to create a more seamless work-life balance. Rather than meander from meeting to meeting, engage in long conversations over the water cooler or take multiple coffee breaks to pass the time, employees who work from home can set their own schedules and avoid numerous office distractions.  The key to successfully implementing a remote workforce is to offer the structure and resources necessary to keep remote employees connected to the business and engaged in their projects. AND…be very specific about their goals and objectives and manage that versus managing their “time”.

As Dann Albright recently wrote in his blog: “In the end, it all comes down to this: happy, engaged employees work harder, smarter, and better.  Those on our team who hate their jobs and feel disenfranchised or underappreciated may go through the motions, but burnout is all but inevitable. When ingredients like open communication, a focus on self-care and autonomy, and the basic human needs of trust and respect are baked into our culture, the result is better employee productivity.  While creating a company culture that fosters positive morale isn’t always easy, the important thing is to just start. So, open up those lines of communication, let go of micromanaging, recognize what your employees are doing (tell them about it), and show you care.  Many of the strategies above might seem counterintuitive—but it’s been shown over and over again that happy, engaged employees are more productive.  You don’t need to spend thousands of dollars on high-end perks to foster this engagement, though.  All you need to do is put yourself in your employees’ shoes and ask yourself how you can improve your work culture so it’s more conducive to productivity.  Put in some time and effort in the coming months, and you’ll start to see employee productivity on the rise.”

So “turn up the heat, Dave…please”.

Together.  We.  Win.


Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Tuesday, October 31, 2017

Not Fair I Said...

Why is there such an easy connection between the sports world and business?  Well… there are team leaders (in sports there is the team captain, but they do not make all the decisions; in business the best managers do not make all the decisions), there are lanes in which we operate (goalies do not always communicate with the forwards and strategy folks should not manage operational folks), there are times to change the plan in the middle of an event (football is the best sport to see how the team modifies the strategy after every play, the best companies understand their changing organizational or customers’ needs and adapt readily), and matching great talent with great positions leads to great success (your team or structure is only as good as the talent within and how well their position matches their strength – would you put a softball catcher at shortstop?).

And on the other side of the coin, Bill Taylor from Fast Company argues that here’s what’s wrong with making analogies between sports and business: “The logic of competition and success is completely different. What makes football or basketball so exhilarating is that only one team wins at the end of a season”. In the case of the World Series, there is one world champion, and many other MLB teams with crushed dreams and saddened fans – sorry Cleveland. For the Dodgers to win (sorry Astros fans), every other team must lose. The logic of business competition is nothing like this. The most successfully run companies, those that win big and create the most economic value, worry less about crushing the competition than about delighting and amazing their customers - everyday. The very idea of zero-sum competition (for the Dodgers to win, the Astros must lose) feels like a relic from a long-ago era of business. Almost all businesses have room for plenty of different winners, each of which is great at serving a focused piece of the market or a certain set of customers.

I can see both sides of this coin.  Although I lean to the similarities with sports and business, mostly around leadership.  The sports world provides a nice metaphor for business, and there are some similarities.   Focused competition, winning by a slim margin, achieving specific goals and targets {batting average, ERA, OBP, etc.}, establishing long-term and short-term strategies {best fielding team, lowest ERA, winning the division, winning the NLCS, winning the World Series}, hard work, attention to detail, determination, teamwork, dealing with success and rebounding from failure – all of these are key challenges in both business and sports.

Successful managers and successful sports coaches can draw amazing performances from their employees or their players through a balance of individual and overall connections.  A common goal, optimism, creativity, authentic communication and humanity.  As I stated a few weeks back, “Adapt. Become a better version of yourself.  Continuously improve.  Challenge the unknown.  Envision the path to success.  Create possibility for your teams.  Work together.  Communicate openly.  Focus on the path to success not the obstacles in the way.”  Show your team the possibilities.  Even when down by four runs with the best pitcher in baseball on the mound.  Never give up.

…and we lead into the unknown.  Specifically, Sunday night the Dodgers pitched Clayton Kershaw {arguably in the top five pitchers of all-time…with a healthy nod to Pedro Martinez, Walter Johnson, Cy Young, and Sandy Koufax} faced Dallas Kuechel (14-5 this year … pretty darn good) in what should have been a low scoring pitcher duel.  And mid game the Dodgers were up by 4 runs with Kershaw in command.  Then the plan … well there was no longer a plan.  At the end of the game there were 28 hits, 25 runs, 7 home runs, and 85 batters.  13-12 final score (congrats Astros).  Wow.  So much for low scoring.

If you are the leader {manager} of either of these teams, your entire game plan is out the window half-way through the game.  Balls are flying out of the stadium.  14 different players have gone deep in the World Series, a new record.  22 total home runs have been hit in the World Series, a new record.  101 home runs have been hit in the postseason overall, a new record.   Three, three-run home runs hit in Game 5, a new record.  Pitching wins the World Series – yeah right.  The choice is to adjust or get left behind.

Among other things, sports teach us about the importance of performance, goal setting, practice, hard work, skill, passion, discipline, perseverance, concentration, mental attitude and desire.   Success in business does as well.  Through sports, we learn about the importance of team work, team chemistry and everybody being on the same page.  How to overcome adversity – how to win when you are losing.   We also learn about the relationship between mental and physical toughness.  David beats Goliath.   We discover what it takes to be the best and that often times we do not win on talent alone. The best teams on paper at the start of the World Series (Cubs? Cleveland?), for instance, did not compete last night for the World Series.  We learn that life is not fair or just, that being part of a team is not a sometimes thing and that quitting is not an option.   Each person on our team has a role and we can only be successful if everyone comes through.  Together.  We.  Win.

Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Monday, October 23, 2017

Are you a Bystander or an Upstander?

I think today I will take a more serious tone – as a male … as someone trying to be better … and as someone trying to understand more.  I will hopefully use the correct words today.  But please know, I am listening.  It's been a full week since a single tweet launched a monumental step in a women's fight for safety and respect in the workplace.  If you are like me – you have read far too many terrible stories from women in regard to the #MeToo hashtag. If you missed it, this is where it started - “If all the women who have been sexually harassed or assaulted wrote “Me too” as a status, we might give people a sense of the magnitude of the problem.” (Tarana Burke).

This problem does not get fixed by women, it gets fixed by us… men.  Every man should feel a responsibility to stop behavior that leads to sexual harassment and assault.  Almost every woman has had something bad happen to her (there are other stories, but this is the large majority).  I have been having inquisitive conversations with my coworkers.  Some women I spoke with said they “dealt with it” because it was “part of being a woman”.   Why should they have to?  Listen, not all men are bad – many of us are pretty good, but many have seen something wrong - probably not the extent as to what we are reading about – but wrong nonetheless.  The bigger question for us is, are we complicit?  Is society too complicit?  Are we wondering what we can do?  Are we wondering what we should have done differently?  Are we already thinking about what we can change?  We need to do something internal, something that won’t produce a public show of support, something far more difficult than rote words of encouragement.  It takes courage to step back and make sure we aren’t part of the problem.

Sexual violence and harassment is truly a global problem. But it’s also about deeply personal stories of suffering; many women are left traumatized, wounded, ashamed, hurt, angry, feeling vulnerable, unsafe, ignored, exploited, and silenced. Some spend their lives trying to come to terms with the abuse they have suffered. Many feel deeply betrayed by the complicity of the men and structures that supported their abuse.  Nearly 1 in 5 women report experiencing rape (or attempted rape) - at some time in their lives. 1 in 20 women report sexual violence other than rape, including sexual coercion and harassment. More than 1 in 4 women in Washington DC, have experienced some form of sexual harassment on public transportation (World Health Organization).

Graham Hill, a Provost in Sydney Australia said it best, “…When we stay quiet about sexual harassment; we are complicit. When we ignore everyday sexism and sexual jokes; we are complicit. When we allow other men to treat women and girls with disrespect and disregard; we are complicit. When we protect structures of power that keep women silent and that keep them outside of decision-making and leadership roles; we are complicit. When we allow “boy’s clubs” to thrive, while excluding women and their voices and contributions and stories; we are complicit. When we know males around us are putting sexual pressure on girls and women but we say nothing; we are complicit. When we see men using their power and position to coerce women into sexual and other intimacies and situations against their will, and yet we choose to do nothing; we are complicit. When we normalize violence, and accept or suggest that women and girls must learn to tolerate and live with the behavior of men and boys; we are complicit. When we blame the victims, and exonerate the perpetrators; we are complicit.”  Please read that again.  I did.

The question for us is when/what did you learn and did you start to change?  Are you continuing to learn and change your behavior?  We need to collectively and individually be better.

I read a great piece by Hannah Starks today where she gives us three pieces of advice: understand the context of your actions, teach our sons about the context of their actions, and call out abuse from others. It is a starting point.  If you are like me, you have probably learned a lot this week.  Context matters.  You may have thought you knew, but I challenge you that you did not know the extent.  Think about how the person you are with “feels”.  Put that in context with your actions.  Think of your wife, your daughter, your mother, your sister, your female friends.  Wow.  Do we need to be more aware and thoughtful and understanding and involved and …?

I still like the “grandmother rule” – would you do “XX” in front of your grandmother.  If there is .001% of doubt about your actions – do not do it.   Grandma was usually right.  And be aware of others - our family, our peers, our friends.  Also, especially be aware of our “buds” and their actions – call them out.

Many of us are parents.  We need to have these discussions now with our sons (and our daughters). This is not alright.  And if we have trouble with that concept – think about our daughter, our mother, our sister, our female friends.  It is more than “no means no”.  Our sons need to be more aware, be more understanding, be more communicative. Be more caring and gentle.  Be respectful.  Our daughters need to know this is not alright – do not remain silent – there are people who can help.

And yes, there are “bad” men we work with, play sports with, go to concerts with, are neighbors with.  There are also good men we work with, play sports with, go to concerts with, are neighbors with – but many may not (or chose not to) understand…yet. There are also plenty of good men who “get it” as well.  A broad spectrum.   We need to help educate each other.  We need to speak up when something is not right.  We must choose to be held accountable. We must choose to hold each other accountable. We must choose, together, to treat EVERYONE with dignity, respect, care—and to hold each other accountable for doing so.  One of the articles I read very clearly stated, “either you are stopping it, or you are facilitating it.”  We cannot be a bystander, we need to be an “upstander”.

It is necessary for all of us to engage in productive conversations about sexism – men and women. This is not a women’s issue, or an issue for just parents with daughters.  It is a culture issue, irrespective of our gender identities, we are all responsible for making change.  Together.  We.  Win.

Dave Harmon
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Tuesday, October 17, 2017

Packers or Pack It In?


This is a business blog right?  Today, we will focus on sports and business….and team work … and leadership. 

What caught my eye and passion this week to write about?  The Packers.  More specifically, the Green Bay (football) Packers.  A franchise steeped in tradition and winning.  The underdog of underdogs.  A small-market team who seemingly always win in a city with about 100,000 inhabitants.  This is a city with botanical gardens, railroad museums, an amusement park, a zoo, performing arts, some craft breweries, a football team AND a lot of pride.  It is cold.  It is small town.  It is Titletown USA.

With that pride comes expectations.  Expectations of winning.  Expectations of leadership.  Expectations of the team.  Expectations of management. Those last four expectations could be written about Pepsi, Apple, Macy’s or even your own business. So…what is the point today Dave?  Well the point is, the Packers lost their on-field leader, Aaron Rodgers, on Sunday.  For.  The.  Season.

How do teams respond when they lose a leader?  We all lose leaders in our careers through promotions, attrition, career changes, relocation, personal reasons, and sometimes even sadder circumstances (we all hate Cancer, right?).

I think, (much like in business) watching how the team, how management, how the public responds will be an interesting case study.  Will the team blame their failures on the loss of a leader?  Will they rise to the challenge and bond more tightly and win without their leader?  Will they rally around the new leader to provide encouragement and support?  Will there be dissention in the ranks undermining their success?  Sound familiar?

Leading in the unknown.  How do we do this?  At Gannett, we have partnered with SY Partners to work with our leaders on this.  Our work centers around 4 key areas:  Optimism, Creativity, Authentic Communication and Humanity.  Will the Packers leadership (coaches, upper management, the new QB) see and outline the possibilities for the team which will grab their teammates faith in winning?  Will the Packers leadership lay out a plan on their new way to move forward – even if the road will be bumpy?  Will the Packers leadership communicate authentically – not backing down from the truth of the situation – but using it to build belief in the future?  Will the Packers leadership create an environment allowing the other members of the team to step up and become better at their respective positions to offset what they lost and build success?  Will the team come together or spread apart?

Are these challenges new?  Are they specific to football?  Are they insurmountable?  My view is no, no and no. It takes effort to step up, step in and stabilize your team (and yourself).  It takes leadership.  Will you have all the answers…no.  Will you be able to control everything….no.  Will you be in command of everything … no.  What can you do?

Adapt. Become a better version of yourself.  Continuously improve.  Challenge the unknown.  Envision the path to success.  Create possibility for your teams.  Work together.  Communicate openly.  Focus on the path to success not the obstacles in the way.  Be confident that not all answers are needed today.  Be confident that a team is better than an individual.  Be confident that no one individual (even as much as I love Aaron Rodgers) is bigger than the mission.  Be confident that the team looks to you for leadership.

Will the Packers continue to win or will they pack it in?  Will your team continue to win or will they pack it in?  Through Optimism, Creativity, Authentic Communication and Humanity you can lead your team to better results and loftier goals.  Challenge the unknown WITH your team.  Together.  We.  Win.


Dave Harmon

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Thursday, October 5, 2017

What Motivates You?



So…. I sit here today contemplating “what drives me?”.  It certainly may be overcoming one of the many mistakes I have made in my career.  It may also be inner drive.  It may also be the need to achieve.  It may also be my parents, “do it right the first time”, “never quit”, “be better”.  It may be DNA.  It may be my boss.  It's actually all of the above.

Thus, today will be like a “little journey through Dave’s brain”.

Let us start with my thinking about mistakes (real or imagined).  I hate to make mistakes, I hate to lose, I hate NOT winning.  As I age (I know in my mind I only look 20 years old and 150 pounds), I am becoming more cordial when I lose – but I still hate it.  That said, I think we would be fooling ourselves to think that we never make mistakes in the workplace – or in life.  Where does my list begin?  Well, let me do this somewhat chronologically and share “the voices” in my head:

Every second: Am I good enough? Am I valued? Am I making a difference?
Every minute: Am I balancing my life appropriately (family, friends, work, volunteering, fun)
Every hour:  Am I using my time wisely?  Am I prioritizing the right work, the right meetings,  the right focus, the right conversations?
Every day:  Am I being the best husband, father, friend, peer, boss, subordinate, best example?
Every week: Am I in the right job, the right company, the right career?
Every month: Am I making an impact with my family, my team, my boss, my company (and also – my family and my community)
Every year: Am I living the right life, with the right values, the right balance, the right focus?

If you are like me, you often have these same questions.  It is healthy.  It is natural.  How we deal with these varies by individual.  I do not think there is a right answer – but I do think this is part of what drives our human behavior.  It also motivates us and drives us to “be better”.  Now motivation, that is another topic.  As "Psychology Today" explains how to define motivation:  it is an internal or external drive that prompts a person to action; the ability to initiate and persist at a task; putting 100% of your time, effort, energy, and focus into your work; being able to work hard in the face of obstacles, boredom, fatigue, stress, and the desire to do other things; motivation means doing everything you can to be as productive as you can.

It's one thing to say you are motivated to achieve your goals; it's another entirely different thing to have that motivation translate into actual action toward those goals. Motivation is so important because it impacts every aspect of your business efforts: preparation, persistence, physical health, lifestyle, outcome … the list goes on.

All else being equal, whatever we put into our work efforts is what we will get out of them. Also, if you are among a group of equally capable colleagues or companies, the one who puts in the most time and effort is, generally, the one who is going to be most successful. A problem I see among many employees in our business world these days is a disconnect between our efforts and our goals. There is often a gap between the goals we have and the effort we are putting into those goals. It's easy to say that we want to be a successful businessperson. It is much more difficult to actually make that happen. If you have this kind of disconnect, you have two choices. You can either lower goals to match our effort or we can raise our effort to match our goals. There is no right choice. But if you're truly motivated to be successful, you better make sure you're doing the work necessary to achieve your goals.

How do we harness all of these voices in our minds, understand all these motivators and put it all in a mixing bowl to help us find that drive to succeed?  How do we understand the intrinsic and extrinsic motivators for us as individuals?  Human beings, by the nature of their being human beings, are a mix of drives. We have a biological drive. We eat when we’re hungry, we drink when thirsty. We have a reward and punishment drive, so we do respond very well to rewards and punishments in our environment. Then we have this third drive (as Daniel Pink refers to), that often gets neglected in business, where we do things “because they’re interesting, because they’re fun, because we like them, because they contribute”.

We all know there are a range of motivation theories; you've probably been able to pick out parts of each that apply to you either now or at some point in your past. By recognizing that your behavior reflects these many complex pieces, you can move on to developing your own unique path to change. Whether it's your need to achieve, fear of failure, incentive, self-determination, or self-actualization, understanding the motivation behind your behavior can give you the insights you need to develop your own unique pathway to fulfillment.

Together.  We.  Win.


Dave Harmon

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Tuesday, October 3, 2017

Appreciating What You Have...Before It's Gone

I returned to the basketball court this Sunday morning.  Why is that newsworthy?  Well, me playing basketball is NOT newsworthy.  Returning to something you love - that was taken away from you is newsworthy.  Or at least blogworthy (I am not sure that is a word?!).

For the last 15 years I have been playing basketball 2-4 times per week.  Some games are very competitive, others are just friendly pick up games.   But all of these games provide three important things in my life: fun, exercise and stress relief.   In that order.  So in early summer when I planted my right knee for a jump shot - my entire hoops passion came crashing down (literally and figuratively).   My knee just buckled. 

Coach always asked, "hurt or injured". We all played "hurt".   This time I was injured.   I knew it when I stood up. As fate would have it, five guys (not the burger joint) playing that night were doctors.  They checked my knee out and said, "you should probably go to the ER".   They offered to take me to the hospital, to drive me home, to drive me to work.  Amazing stuff. 

Well, long story short, the entire list of damage was this: tear of lateral meniscus, distal femur fracture, proximal tibia fracture, tear of the iliotibial band, sprain of lateral collateral ligament, and a bunch knee joint fluid build up.  It was not enjoyable to say the least. 

Like many things in life,  we take mobility for granted until it is taken away.  Sleeping was tough, driving was tough, carrying my iPad was work, going through doors on crutches made me really appreciate the ADA.  Putting on my sock, going down stairs ... you get the idea.  

Five decades and I have never been out of commission this long.  I know it happens to all of us in some form or fashion - we lose a loved one (see my blog on losing my dog, Bella), we move to a new town, we lose a job, people lose limbs, we lose our parents, we wreck our car, we lose a college roommate.  These are life altering events.  We make promises to change ... and many times we do.  Usually for the better.   We appreciate the little things more.  We become more empathetic.  We understand.

What was the biggest surprise to me besides missing basketball?   I missed the social interaction.  These are guys who do not care what my job is, how much money I have, what my race or religion is, how much I weigh (ok so there are a few jokes there), or even how old I am.   They care that I can play ball, that I am not a jerk, that I laugh at our foibles, and that I am a team player.  

At least twenty different guys checked in on me while I was out.  Many of these guys I only interact with on the basketball court.  Some for the last 15 years.   I was pleasantly surprised.  They cared about me as a member of their team (loosely defined).  They sent emails, they sent beer, they brought me food.   Wow. 

On the court, we are united in our quest for the better pass, the game winning stop, the surprise steal, the unnoticed pick.  And we are all there to laugh at father time.  We are not twenty anymore in our skills - but we enjoy the game just as much - if not more (especially when it is taken away).  We relish those Thursday nights or Sunday mornings because we are all there together enjoying one of our passions.

United in our passion.  Together.   We.   Win.  

..... and I'm back!!!

Dave Harmon
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Tuesday, September 26, 2017

Our Flag, Our Freedom, Our Anthem, Our Protests

Risky topics today to opine on in my blog.  “Never discuss politics or religion”, our parents always warned us.  A rule of good etiquette for dinner parties and other occasions when polite decorum should prevail.  But otherwise, politics should be debated, vigorously and often. We, as a country, need to learn how to bring back vigorous, yet civil political discourse.  

In my opinion, much of the current rules in public debate of politics appear to be as such:
I’m a very smart and educated person and I believe X.
This other person believes Y.
Therefore, this other person is a complete buffoon (or at least that is the nice word as opposed to what we read 5-7 comments down after any opinion based article)

So, I am not taking sides in my blog today, but rather offering up some educational facts to allow you to form your own opinion on the current issues at hand.  As with any public debate, there is usually merit to both sides.  What is important in any debate, is to know how to discuss rationally and to know the facts.  So here I go… (with the help from an article in “The Art of Manliness”)

First, how about we ALL try our hardest to see the other side.  Seek to understand.  When we passionately believe in something, it can seem nearly impossible to even conceive how another person doesn’t see things the same way you do. But since we’ve established that having a divergent political belief does not a buffoon make, you should be duly curious about why your friend feels the way he does.  Right?

Second, please stop with the “how” and “why” questions. Questions like, “How could you possibly believe that?” and “Why can’t you see how wrong you are?” won’t get you anywhere. People have emotions and opinions – you cannot control those. They.  Just.  Are.  Instead, pose “what” questions: “What makes you feel that way?” “What has led you to come to that conclusion?” Be interested in what the person has to say.  Stop thinking about your response and truly listen to understand.

Third, and I do work for Gannett – a media company, please learn to consume media from both sides of the issue.  How can you expect to expand your mind when you always listen/read what you agree with?  If all you consume is media from one particular source, a source that affirms and flatters your already preconceived beliefs, then you’re never going to be able to see the other side – the definition of narrow-mindedness.  History shows us that “back in the day” we didn’t just read op-eds and attend speeches of people with whom we agreed. We eagerly consumed what our opponents had to say as well. We must make an effort to read, listen, and watch news that may make our blood pressure soar, but will leave us better informed and ready to make fair assessments. If you’re a devoted CNN fan, tune into Fox or BBC every now again.

Next, learn to concede a point where appropriate.  Unless your friend really is a buffoon, she’ll probably say a few things that you actually agree with. A badger of a person will let these things pass by without a word, believing that to concede any point is to show weakness. An intelligent and secure person is able to say, “Yeah, that’s a good point. I hadn’t thought of that.” Even if you don’t agree with something, at least pepper your discourse with the occasional “I understand why you feel that way,” and “I can see that.”

Find common ground.  Even if you and your friend are on opposite ends of the spectrum. Even if it’s basic generalities like “Washington is broken,” or “politicians have lost sight of their jobs”, or “the Packers are the best team in football” (ok, I took a side there).  We can agree on those things and then civilly present our varying perspectives on how it should be fixed.

Finally, we all need to stick to the facts.  Only bring to the table those facts which have been thoroughly vetted as true – fact check yourself. Information culled from emails forwarded to you by Aunt Madea or Uncle Buck, articles from the National Trash Daily, and stories from a ham radio broadcast you listened to at 430am do not count. How you and your friend interpret the facts will of course vary, but you must at least be debating accurate information as opposed to rumors and slander that no one can really prove or argue against.

And this brings me to the second part of my blog, “just the facts please, just the facts” (with the help of ESPN, gov.org, Wikipedia, Webster’s, Google, Francis Scott Key, and Aunt Madea):

The important thing to remember about our National Anthem is that it is a battle song involving rockets and bombs.  That's why, in our country which proudly celebrates actions on the battlefield and the playing field, "The Star-Spangled Banner" and our sports have a nearly perfect union. The anthem was created during one war, and cemented in our psyches during another.  They seemingly go “hand in hand’.  We honor war, love sports and celebrate winning - our national anthem strikes all three chords at the same time.  So…what does an antagonistic, difficult-to-sing 200-year-old tune about a flag have to do with playing sports?   Congress didn't officially adopt the "The Star-Spangled Banner" until 1931 -- and by that time it was already a baseball tradition steeped in wartime patriotism. After America's entrance into World War I, Major League Baseball games often featured patriotic rituals, such as players marching in formation during pregame military drills and bands playing patriotic songs. During the seventh-inning stretch of game one of the 1918 World Series, the band erupted into "The Star-Spangled Banner."  The Cubs and Red Sox players faced the centerfield flag pole and stood at attention. Upon hearing the opening notes of the National Anthem from the military band, a player (and former Navy serviceman) immediately faced the flag and snapped to attention with a military salute. The other players on the field followed suit, in "civilian" fashion, meaning they stood and put their right hands over their hearts. The crowd, already standing, showed its first real signs of life all day, joining in a spontaneous sing-along, quietly at first, then finishing with flair. For the next two games, it had the band play "The Star-Spangled Banner" during the seventh-inning stretch, to similarly enthusiastic crowds. Not to be outdone, the Red Sox ratcheted up the pageantry when the Series relocated to Boston for the next three games. At Fenway Park, "The Star-Spangled Banner" moved from the seventh-inning stretch to the pregame festivities, and the team coupled the playing of the song with the introduction of wounded soldiers who had received free tickets.  Like the Chicago fans, the normally reserved Boston crowd erupted for the pregame anthem and the hobbled heroes.  The crowd, already on their feet, began to sing along and applauded at the end of the song.  SO …. thanks to a brass band, some fans and a former Navy servicemen (and current player) who snapped to attention, the “anthem” was the baseball’s (national pastime) anthem more than a decade before it was the nation's.

And how about our flag?    There is an actual code for our flag and a section devoted to conduct during the National Anthem.  The United States Code for the Flag, in Section 171, describes conduct during the National Anthem. “During rendition of the national anthem when the flag is displayed, all present except those in uniform should stand at attention facing the flag with the right hand over the heart. Men not in uniform should remove their headdress with their right hand and hold it at the left shoulder, the hand being over the heart. Persons in uniform should render the military salute at the first note of the anthem and retain this position until the last note. When the flag is not displayed, those present should face toward the music and act in the same manner they would if the flag were displayed there.”

And what about “freedom of speech”.  Freedom of speech is the right to articulate one's opinions and ideas without fear of government retaliation or censorship, or societal sanction. The term freedom of expression is sometimes used synonymously, but includes any act of seeking, receiving and imparting information or ideas, regardless of the medium used.  Freedom of expression is recognized as a human right under article 19 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and recognized in international human rights law in the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights(ICCPR).  Article 19 of the UDHR states that "everyone shall have the right to hold opinions without interference" and "everyone shall have the right to freedom of expression; this right shall include freedom to seek, receive and impart information and ideas of all kinds, regardless of frontiers, either orally, in writing or in print, in the form of art, or through any other media of his choice".  Therefore, freedom of speech and expression may not be recognized as being absolute, and common limitations to freedom of speech relate to libel, slander, obscenity, pornography, sedition, incitement, fighting words, classified information, copyright violation, trade secrets, food labeling, non-disclosure agreements, the right to privacy, the right to be forgotten, public security, and perjury.

And the “right to protest” - while no human rights instrument or national constitution grants the absolute right to protest, such a right to protest may be a manifestation of the right to freedom of assembly, the right to freedom of association, and the right to freedom of speech.   The First Amendment states that “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.”

Some are questioning the rules and duties for our President.  They are actually pretty simply defined: The Constitution lays out rules and duties for the president as follows:
The president serves terms of four years.
During that time, he or she must oversee the faithful execution of U.S. laws.
He or she must take this oath: "I do so solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will faithfully execute the Office of the President of the United States, and will to the best of my ability, preserve, protect and defend the Constitution of the United States."
The president serves as commander in chief of the U.S. military as well as state militias when they're activated under federal command.
The president can grant ­pardons, except in cases of where he or she has been impeached.
He or she can make treaties with other nations, with consent of the Senate.
The president can appoint Supreme Court justices, ambassadors and other public officers (such as Cabinet secretaries), with Senate confirmation.
He or she can convene or adjourn both houses of Congress, if deemed necessary.
The president must report to Congress in a State of the Union address.
He or she must receive foreign heads of state and officials.
The president is compensated (for salary, expenses and travel expenses).
Should the president be accused of high crimes and misdemeanors, he or she can be removed from office through impeachment.
The president must propose bills to Congress.
He or she can block Congressional bills from becoming law through the veto power.

This is the extent of the president's duties, and later amendments and laws further shaped the presidency. The 22nd Amendment (ratified after Franklin Roosevelt's record three full terms) limited the president to two terms, although these needn't be consecutive: President Grover Cleveland served two terms with a four-year hiatus in between. The succession of power in the event of the president's removal or incapacitation was delineated in 1947: “Next up is the vice president, the speaker of the House, the Senate president pro tem and then the members of the Cabinet, beginning with the secretary of state and ending with the Secretary of Veteran's Affairs”.

Then there is also the “unitary executive theory”, which was claimed to justify effectively unchecked presidential power over the use of military force, the detention and interrogation of prisoners, extraordinary rendition and intelligence gathering.  According to the unitary executive theory, since the Constitution assigns the president all of “the executive power”, he can set aside laws that attempt to limit his power over national security.  This is an enormous power: critics charge that it effectively places the president above the law.  Advocates of broad presidential power argue it is necessary to defend the nation against the threat posed by terrorism.

From an article in the New York Times about facts, arguments and politics (Gary Gutting), he says “But, strictly speaking, facts by themselves provide only the premises of a rational argument. To draw a conclusion, we also need a logical process of reasoning. Sometimes, the process is obvious and insisting on it a mere technicality: if the train is in fact bearing down on you, the conclusion is that you should get off the tracks. But in political debates, there’s often a questionable move from facts to a conclusion. …  That facts alone are necessary but not sufficient for a good argument. As important as getting the facts right is putting the facts into a comprehensive logical structure that supports your conclusion. This structure must present a plausible account of the various factors relevant to the conclusion. Without it, even an impeccable set of facts does not give us a good argument. The recent journalistic trend toward serious fact-checking holds considerable promise for improving our political debates. But we also need a serious effort at argument-checking.”

We all need to seek to understand and respect our differences in opinion.  Present our facts and debate while also seeking to understand the “other side”.  Our country, our leaders, our politicians, our co-workers, and even our friends can lose sight of the importance in understanding, accepting, and valuing differences. Most issues are not black and white, red or blue, or even he or she – the best answer lies somewhere in the middle (note I did not say “right” answer).  Ultimately, the most important thing about including the ideas of others is that it recognizes and honors the fundamental value each of us bring to a discussion.   So please debate away with facts and an open mind, but please remember this -  often, the best answer lies in the middle.  Together.  We.  Win.

“O say does that star-spangled banner yet wave…O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave”…

Dave Harmon
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