The Substance Abuse and
Mental Health Services Administration says those two things are most important
if you believe someone may be thinking about suicide.
Kate Spade, Anthony Bourdain,
Robin Williams, Kurt Cobain, Jovan Belcher (KC Chiefs), Junior Seau, Simone
Battle (X-Factor), Don Cornelius, Michael Hutchence (INXS), Freddie Prinze, the
list goes on. I Googled this list and Wikipedia had too many to even
fathom. Mental health needs to be part of our everyday discussions.
This is not someone else’s problem. We all are touched by it – our
families, our friends, our neighbors, our kids….
I wanted to take my blog this
week to help bring more awareness to this issue. Suicides are on the
rise. U.S. suicides overall totaled nearly 45,000 in 2016, a 35% increase
compared with 10 years earlier, according to the Centers for Disease Control
and Prevention’s National Center for Health Statistics. There is a
suicide in the U.S. every 13 minutes. 13 minutes.
Not surprisingly, workplace suicides are also on the
rise compelling corporations to re-think how we talk about mental health at
work. Suicides in the workplace totaled about 300 in 2016, the highest
number since the government began keeping track 25 years ago, according to the
Bureau of Labor Statistics. And, a new study by researchers from the National
Institute for Occupational Safety and Health (NIOSH) analyzed census data and
found that workplace suicides have increased every year since 2010. NIOSH researchers found that people
in certain occupations faced higher risks, for example, first responders who
experience high stress and have easy access to guns.
From the pages and articles
in our own USA Today (Oquendo, Guynn, Powers, O’Donnell, Saker, Zoroya, and
Posner):
“We often assume that people
who commit suicide are mentally ill, but this isn’t always the case. There
are many other factors that have
nothing to do with mental illness, including loss of a relationship,
loneliness, chronic illness, financial loss, history of trauma or abuse and the
stigma associated with asking for help. Even for those who do ask for
help, friends and family can be flummoxed by “successful people” planning their
own deaths.
Some of the puzzlement has to
do with a misunderstanding about what leads to suicide. Most people think
of suicide as a catastrophic reaction to a stressful event. Whether it is
a marital, financial, legal or academic problem, the lore goes, the person
cannot deal with it and takes their own life. But that is far from
accurate. After all, most of us are beset by
stressors. Often. And while suicide rates continue to climb at an
alarming pace, the vast majority of people do not turn to suicide when faced
with a problem, no matter how devastating or overwhelming.
Research clearly shows that
the effects of external stressors are dwarfed by the effects of psychiatric
conditions. Depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, alcohol or drug
misuse, psychosis — all of these greatly increase risk.
What happens in the mind of
the suicidal individual? The individual feels that their existence is wretched,
the pain is intolerable, and the problem without solution. This conviction
occurs regardless of whether an outsider would agree with the assessment.”
First, it is essential to
note that asking someone about suicide does not “put ideas” into their
head. We know from research conducted in many populations, including high
school students, that it is safe to ask about
suicidal thoughts. To the contrary, the person is often
quite relieved because they had not previously felt comfortable talking about
these very frightening and disturbing thoughts.
Next, it is imperative to get
help for the suicidal person. If your community has a mental health
clinic, that can be a good place to start. Some may prefer to start with
their own family doctor or pediatrician for advice on what to do. National
crisis hotlines such as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255)
can also provide assistance. If the risk seems imminent, the local emergency
department can evaluate the person and refer him or her to appropriate
resources, including hospitalization.”
Alarming new statistics show
that our children are increasingly at risk of suicidal thoughts, attempts and
deaths. A new study led by Vanderbilt University, published in the
academic journal, Pediatrics, reports a more than doubling from 2008 to 2015 of school-age
children and adolescents hospitalized for suicidal thoughts or attempts. Just more than half were youth
between the ages of 15-17, followed by those between the ages of 12-14 (37
percent), and those ranging in ages from 5-11 (nearly 13 percent).
All told, suicide takes more
lives of our youth than automobile accidents. The sad truth: Suicide among our youth ages
10-24 was the second leading cause of death, behind unintentional injuries, in
2015, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). The
pace has quickened since 2006.
Even as
psychiatrists and public health specialists struggle to explain the growing
numbers, people who have survived their own suicide attempts say there are
things that ordinary people can do to help someone they know who might be at
risk of suicide: ask and listen.
The Substance Abuse and
Mental Health Services Administration says, here’s what to do if you believe
someone may be thinking about suicide:
- Ask them if they are thinking about killing themselves. (This will not put the idea into their head or make it more likely that they will attempt suicide.)
- Listen without judging and show you care.
- Stay with the person, or make sure the person is in a private, secure place with another caring person, until you can get further help.
- Remove any objects that could be used in a suicide attempt.
- Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) and follow their guidance.
If danger for self-harm seems
imminent, call 911.
Some additional workplace
resources:
- Suicide Prevention Resource Center
- Working Through It
- Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention
- Heads Up
- Each Mind Matters
The takeaway advice from me
for all of us (and I read this somewhere): “When in doubt, reach
out.” Ask and Listen.
The National Suicide
Prevention Lifeline is available 24/7 at 800-273-8255.
As USA Today’s Kelly Posner
stated, “Suicide can be prevented — which sets it apart from other sources of
pain and suffering in the world. We need to get to a place where everybody,
everywhere asks the questions that help identify at-risk individuals and get
them the help that they need. Together, we can prevent these unnecessary
tragedies”
Together. We.
Win.
Dave Harmon
People Division
“Kindness is Currency”
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People Division
“Kindness is Currency”
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/davidharmonhr
Look for us on: LinkedIn, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, The Muse, Glassdoor and Gannett Careers
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