Thursday, December 13, 2018

Managing is not for Dummies….



So many of you heard this week about Chicago Cubs manager Joe Maddon.   The Chicago Cubs manager said Tuesday at the winter meetings that he’s reading the book “Managing Millennials for Dummies” to help him be a better manager.

“It’s a great read, ‘Managing Millennials for Dummies.’ I’m in the middle of that right now,” Maddon said. “And you always think this for dummy’s thing is really rudimentary written, it’s really well written and researched. I’m learning about traditionalists, Baby Boomers, the X’ers, the Millennials. And I’m really starting to understand this a little bit better.”

He then said, “I think it’s important for me as a manager obviously, whether anybody here agrees or disagrees with the generation and how they process things, it doesn’t matter, because that’s the way it is. And if that’s the way it is, just like my dad, that generation, thought we were a bunch of babies, the Boomers, the traditionalist thought, they’re all soft. It doesn’t matter. You have to figure out how to communicate and extract the best out of this group and make sure that you’re always on the same page.”

“You have to make your adjustments, and that’s what I’m working on right now, is to understand better how I could better serve these guys,” Maddon said.

Many of the news outlets have picked up on Coach Maddon’s age (mid 60’s) and the Millennial generation.  What I picked up was a people-focused manager trying to better understand his team.  Better understand how they think, how to communicate, how to connect?  Who would not want to work for a leader who is continuously trying to better understand what makes the team “go”?

Think about when you travel abroad.  Many countries have differing cultures than we do. Knowing this, many of us might spend significant time learning how to better communicate with the residents.  We might look up the meanings of common terms, understand local issues,  and access key attractions.  We would do research to make the experience better.  Why not do this as a leader?

Similarly, when you first become a leader or inherit a new team, it’s helpful to spend time up front connecting and creating a common language with our teams. When your team knows how you like to work and how you plan to manage them, they’re able to produce results faster. When you know how each of your direct reports likes to work and communicate, you’re able to save time when setting direction and following-up.  It improves the team dynamics.  It is a “two-way” street of learning.

Some questions to ask as you learn more about your team:

            Who are “morning” people and who are “afternoon” people?
            Who needs their coffee first?
            Who likes data verses who is an emotional decision maker?
            Who makes quick decisions and who processes?
            Who is introverted, who is extroverted?
            Who is direct and frank vs. who is sensitive and needs time?
            Who is a “fixer” and who is a “identifier”?
            Who are optimists and who are pessimists?
            Who is serious and who likes humor?
            What are their respective communications styles?
            What are they passionate about?
            What are their “hot buttons”?
            What are their quirks?

You get the idea.  There are probably a hundred more questions you can ask – the point is to ask or observe.  Can you answer most of those questions about your team?  Each and every one of these are important to the success of the team.  Even the pessimist – they are good at playing devil’s advocate.  They are good at finding the problems or potential downfalls with your ideas.  Having a diverse mix is important, but understanding who has what characteristics and how to manage to those is more important.

Maybe you think about running your team through the DISC assessment tool.  Half my team just completed this exercise and they still are talking about it a few weeks later.  The DISC breaks down personality into four categories. They are:

Decisiveness - For these steamrollers, getting the job done is the most important thing. Never mind minor details or possible hurt feelings. As long as the end goal is achieved, they're good. They're our problem solvers and will keep the company moving along.
Interactive - The people's people, they are outgoing and the life of the party. They're also expressive, impulsive and persuasive and can lose focus easily.   They're creative and fun to be around.
Stabilizing - The ultimate team player, they're unbelievably loyal, steady and concerned about how everyone feels. They'll run from conflict and can sometimes be slow to make a decision.  They're patient, make great teachers or coaches and are devoted to the team and the company. 
Cautious - The perfect job for a C? Anything with more rules than you can shake a bureaucrat at. They love them, as well as details and procedures. They have some of the highest quality-control interests of any of the styles.

Remember, your teams can become unbalanced if all team members have similar styles of behavior or team roles. If your team members have similar weakness, the team as a whole may tend to have that weakness. If your team members have similar team-work strengths, they may tend to compete (rather than co-operate) for the team tasks and responsibilities that best suit their natural styles.

One last recommendation is to think about how you can better connect with your team (from a Forbes article I read by Martin Zwilling).   Building engaged team members is a key step in becoming an effective team leader, even if your team is spread all over the country:

Be genuine and transparent. If you are not, your team will see right through it.  Treat each person as THEY want to be treated.  Be genuinely interested in learning something new every day from your team, and they will follow you.
Make time for your team. We need to schedule regular and predictable times to only be working and interacting with your team.   Sometime in the morning and sometime in the afternoon may be enough, if you make it happen consistently.
Maintain regular “town halls” with the entire team.  This can even be done remotely via Skype, but it’s important that every team member attends. Actively listen as they summarize their accomplishments, and their plan for the weeks ahead. Leadership is making sure they have resources and understand the strategy.
Walk Around.  This is one of the most effective ways to find out what is going on, as well as an opportunity to provide feedback.  Hit the floor and stop at people’s desks. Ask them what is going on, both in the team and outside of work.  Really listen.
Recognize individual efforts. Pay attention to great work. Most leaders don’t say “thank you” enough. Recognition in front of peers is often more motivating than monetary awards.
Reduce your outside engagements. You won’t be viewed as the team leader if you spend most of your time on activities that are not relevant to your team. Be visible and engaged on a full-time basis. 

This is where your personal leadership becomes business leadership, which can actually change the world with your team.  Challenge yourself to make some changes and see if the team responds.  Also, ask for feedback along the way.

Together.  We.   Win.



Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Wednesday, December 5, 2018

The Santa Challenge


In the Spirit of St. Nicholas or Santa or Dave…

The true story of Santa Claus begins with Nicholas, who was born during the third century in a small village.   At the time, the area was Greek and is now part of the southern coast of Turkey. His wealthy parents died in an epidemic while Nicholas was still young. Nicholas used his whole inheritance to assist the needy, the sick, and the suffering. He dedicated his life to serving. Nicholas became known throughout the land for his generosity to those in need, love for children, and concern for sailors and ships.

Santa Claus is generally depicted as a portly, jolly, white-bearded man—sometimes with spectacles—wearing a red coat with white fur collar and cuffs, white fur-cuffed red trousers, a red hat with white fur and black leather belt, boots and carrying a bag full of gifts for children.

Dave Harmon is generally depicted as a “you hold your weight well kinda guy”, jolly, unbearded man (cannot actually grow one)—sometimes with a goatee—wearing jeans (every day) with a quarter zipper sweater, funky socks, a Dodger/Packer hat with a black leather belt and zipper boots and carrying a bag full of stories for LinkedIn.

So where am I going with this?  Well, it is not about me, but about the spirit of giving.  How can we all take that spirit and spread it through the holiday season?  Whether you are St. Nicholas, Santa, Dave, Sally or Raj.  Let's all take a little of that “spirit of helping others” to the next level. 

So here is my “Santa Challenge”:
Can you up your game in how you love one another and seek to make everyone happy?
Can you give of yourself by thought or word or deed in every gift that you give?
Can you share your joys with those who are sad?
Can you never close your hand against the needy?
Can you always outstretch your arm to aid the weak?
Can you provide quick and genuine sympathy in times of trouble?
Can you recognize a friend and brother (sister) in every person you meet upon life's common road?
And finally….
Can you live your life throughout the entire year in this holiday spirit?

Together.  We.  Win



Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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Monday, November 26, 2018

Giving back

November 27, 2018 is Giving Tuesday.  #GivingTuesday is the global day of giving fueled by the power of social media and collaboration. It is celebrated on the Tuesday following Thanksgiving (in the U.S.) and the widely recognized major shopping events we call - Black Friday and Cyber Monday.  #GivingTuesday jump starts the charitable season, when many focus on their holiday and end-of-year giving.  It’s a simple idea that has gained traction.  Whether you come together with your family, your community, your work team, your company or your organization, find a way to give back and then share your idea.

Let’s take this idea and channel it back to your teams.  In Psychology Today, Brett Steenbarger writes,In the course of helping teams achieve peak performance,  I've noticed an interesting phenomenon.  Leaders who have given the most of themselves to their teams have received the most from members in terms of performance and effort. Mutual giving brings a higher level of engagement and learning, which means that giving yields an exponential degree of receiving. There is a powerful psychological principle at work here that underlies the psychology of giving. When we experience ourselves as givers, we receive a deep and enduring affirmation of our value to others.  In transcending the self, we obtain the most profound experience of self…  This makes sense if we think of our daily activities as a form of exercise.  Each undertaking exercises one or more character traits--for the better or for the worse. In the spirit of "use it or lose it", we build the traits that we exercise and express. When we fail to actualize traits, these atrophy.  Over time, that means we can become more or less giving, more or less loving, more or less engaged with the well-being of others.  Our daily activities in the gymnasium of life can strengthen our best inclinations or our worst ones.  Unwittingly, when we set our daily calendar,  we lay a blueprint for our development.  What we do shapes who we become.  When we give and give and give, we experience ourselves as special.  In receiving those loving looks and paws on the face, we in turn find the muscles of generosity strengthened, allowing us to engage the rest of life with our best inclinations.:”  Do you give enough of yourself back to your team?

Those who have acquired great wealth sometimes feel a sense of emptiness.  One of the most well-known givers Mahatma Ghandi said: The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”

Of all the methods for increasing employee engagement preached about from business coaches nationwide, workplace philanthropy is possibly the least common. But it shouldn’t be.  According to the 2011 Deloitte Volunteer IMPACT Survey of employed adults ages 21-35, millennials who frequently participate in workplace volunteer activities are nearly TWICE as likely to be very satisfied with the progression of their career.  In a report from Network for Good, “Employee engagement through cause is a vital means by which to strengthen employee relationships, enhance employee morale and even build critical skill sets and expertise. Plus, employees are hungry for ways to get involved in cause.”  And guess what, there are more people/projects in need than we have “givers”.  Do you make community involvement part of your team’s annual work?

Sometimes, it seems like the spirit of the holiday season is lost on us.  At work, we don’t give thanks nearly enough: Some 79% of employees quit because they didn’t feel appreciated.  Think about that 4 out of 5.  And just as everyone took George Bailey for granted in the holiday classic It’s a Wonderful Life, we often fail to give thanks to those that we lean on every day in the workplace (and at home for that matter).  Do you take the time to say thank you every day?  Do you write simple notes that are specific and heartfelt?

In a gratitude survey of 2,000 Americans by the John Templeton Foundation, 81% percent of respondents said that they’d be willing to work harder for an appreciative boss, and 70% said they’d feel better about themselves and their efforts if their boss thanked them more regularly. Only 10% of survey respondents said that they regularly showed their colleagues gratitude.  This is an inexpensive fix – it is FREE.

During a time where the end of the year is fast approaching, employees rush to get projects completed, and planning for next year has already begun, it's important to take a step back and give thanks to your team.  “Thanks” is more about the act of noticing and caring, then about the gift.

Sometimes, in the excitement and stress of the holiday season, we forget the “give” in giving thanks. Our teams are busy, year-end projects getting finished, holiday stress, less work days.  Take a moment this holiday season to add some extra “thanks” in your days.  Also, doing work for a charity or nonprofit can do wonders for the community, while getting your team away from their desks.  It also can put everyone in a better place knowing that they made a difference - when we experience ourselves as givers, we receive a deep and enduring affirmation of our value to others.  What a nice way to live.

Together.  We.  Win.



Dave Harmon
People Division
Kindness is Currency
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